Monday, April 1, 2013

How to Lead the Dance with Fear... And Win

Unless you give yourself a compelling reason why you would want to give this up, you will stay with you current dance partner. With a big enough reason why, we can accomplish anything.

The secret to letting go of the fear is to give yourself such a compelling reason that no matter what, you wouldn't go back to that no  matter what, you wouldn't go back to that old choice.


  • What is your greatest fear?
  • How has this fear benefited you in the past? i.e. what has it kept you safe from?
  • What has it cost you in the past?
  • What is it costing you now?
  • What will is cost you in the future? In one year? I five years? In ten year?
  • What will letting this fear run you cost those whom you love?
  • Why would you choose to be free of this fear now? Answer this question with total intensity. Really connect with why you must choose to be free of this fear right now. Imagine all of the benefits of choosing to let it go. 
Make a commitment right now to no longer let that fear run your life. Decide now that you will run your life. What does this mean you will now do differently? What are you now willing to attempt or experience or let go of with this level of commitment?

Everyone feels fear when approaching something totally new in their lives...Yet still people are out there "doing it."  So fear isn't the problem..."

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